The Pick Up Artist and One Night Stands II
There’s one thing you need to know when going for a one-night stand - You cannot always bring home the hottest girl in the place.
Bringing a girl home doesn’t based on whether she is open or not in going home with a guy, sure maybe you can her number but it varies widely on particular night.
However, there are LOTS of horny women moving around the clubs and bar anytime of the day that are open in getting lay that same day or night. And all you have to do is have a knowledge and ability to spot them.
The things that I look in spotting them are in the way how they dressed, how much make-up they put on their face and other things that relates to how they look physically. Remember that there is a reason why women exert a lot of effort in order to look beautiful.
The general reason is that women wants an attention and be approach. Although this isn’t always be the reason but a a lot of time it is the case.
You will also know that a woman is seeking attention when she is so loud, hyper and animated.
Lastly, another good prospect are woman that are looking around the room more than the other girls that she’s with. Also a group of two or three women all standing around with blank expressions, scoping the room are another prospect.
These are what women do in order for someone to notice and approach them.
Just take these in mind, that when you approach you don’t go into full-steam running your clever routines and cocky frame control stuff. You have to take it easy.
You have to let them know that you are interested in meeting them, A simple “hey ladies, you all look great tonight. Special occasion?” is enough. Its just have to be light, warming and social.
The key here is not to openly discuss getting in sensual or that you are looking to take her home. You see, if you talk about that, you’ll put her on the spot and make her agree to bang with you, implicitly.
Rather you want to build sensual tension, as we discuss heavily in our workshops.
The woman will force herself to keep distance from you because that is against her “rules”. And you need a logistic information in order to figure out how to bring her back to your place
The real key to all this is subtracting any overt sensual intention, and not trying to pick her up.
You must have the willingness to control the situation and knows how to enjoy while having the escalation in the right way.
Although it may seem as counter intuitive, but this is how it works.
You have to trust that women wants to get in bed, and that a lot of the women in the venue wants to lay NOW.
Some won’t and some will, and that is why you need to know how to spot and get them.
You don’t want to put a lot of effort and time with the wrong girl or to pick the right girl and then mess it up after a very long interaction.
That’s a HUGE waste of time.
